It will never happen so don’t expect it to happen. Well I wish I could tell that it was so, but in reality it is harder to understand her as your wife, than it was to understand her as your girlfriend or fiance.
Now I bet you are saying to yourself, “If I understand my fiance, then it will be easier to understand her as my wife”. When I was dating my wife in the Ukraine, I spent a lot of time looking through the Internet, bookstores and magazines searching for that little bit of information to help me succeed in building a strong, happy relationship with the woman I was courting. Spend time with them and their family or friends to learn the culture. You could search for years through books, periodicals and magazines trying to acquire just a quarter of this information.
Coming from the standpoint of a man, it is great to have someone like a female Russian friend to fill in the cultural holes that we men may trip over when building a relationship with our Russian Beauties.
But before you open your wallet and start to shell out your hard earned money to have access to all this amazing, factual information, I am going let you in on a little secret. I lived it.
Would you really like to know all these answers and more? I know that there are probably hundreds if not thousands of guys out there that would happily pay hundreds and even thousands of dollars for this information. I had to learn everything the hard way. It may sound backwards, but it is all true. It is possible for a relationship like this to work. Relationships are hard and adding differences in culture does not make it any easier.
What makes a Russian American relationship work? Can a Russian American marriage work? What is the reason behind the beauty of a Russian woman? What drives her desires? What are her needs? Are you the perfect match for a Russian Woman?
What you need to do is talk to a Russian friend or make friends with a Russian person. But a wonderful thing can happen that I have seen in a lot of American Russian relationships. And I can tell you from experience it was not an easy thing to do.. The two very different cultures will mesh together creating a very unique, enjoyable and strong loving relationship. Nor will your Russian wife be able to turn you into a Russian Man. Bottom line, people and culture are different. There is no book, magazine or any other kind of literature you can buy that will help you learn this stuff.
Now I don’t want to scare you, but there will never really come a time when your Russian wife will fully understand America and be like an ordinary American Woman. All you need is a little help from a friend…
The differences in culture and way of life are not easy to understand. That just does not happen either